War and Starvation: stories of women who are struggling to feed their children

 Yemen
 Emergency Response
 2nd Nov 2018

Fathiah Al Thamarye, CARE Field Officer

War.

Such a small word, but with a reality larger and more horrifying than anything I could ever have imagined. At the beginning of this conflict I could never have predicted what was going to happen, and how much uglier and more inhuman the situation would become. You only realize the effects of war when you live it, and we have been living it now for more than three and a half years. During these last few years I have seen and heard stories of suffering that I had never come across in more than ten years of field work.

The devastation of this war is affecting every single person in Yemen. Whether it is through spread of disease, collapse of institutions, or economic decline and starvation. People have been forced to flee their homes, leaving everything behind as they seek safety. And when they reach a safer place they realize that they have absolutely nothing to survive. I have seen displaced people who starved with their children for two days because they had nothing to feed them. I have heard many stories, but there are four that will never leave me. I remember these women’s stories and tears come to my eyes and my heart aches.

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Suaad’s story

As we entered Suaad’s house we saw that it consisted of only one bedroom, a kitchen and a bathroom.
Five family members live in this tiny house. Suuad’s kitchen was absolutely empty.
When I asked her what she gives her four children to eat, she said:
“We haven’t eaten anything for almost two days,
apart from a piece of bread that was given to us by my neighbor.”

Taqia’s story

Taqia is a widow who lives with her daughter and grandchildren.
She told me with a sore voice: “Five years ago we were able to survive on what little we had,
but since the war I was hardly able to feed my family.
My daughter and her children are completely dependent on me. Sometimes I cry at night about our situation.
Sometimes I can hardly sleep when I hear my grandchildren crying from hunger.
Sometimes I go out and walk for hours until I reach a restaurant or a supermarket,
hoping to get food from them.”

Samira’s story

Samira told me her story in tears. She said: “I have ten children and the oldest one is twelve years old.
They are all still so young and they need to be fed properly in order to grow.
We have a small farm that we grow vegetables in,
but for a long time it has not been enough to feed all twelve members of the family.
And now with such high prices for water, we can’t afford to grow anything.”

Qayma’s Story

Qayma is a very strong Yemeni woman.
Before the war she was just about able to provide her children with a decent life.
But with the dire economic and humanitarian situation she isn’t able to continue.
“My husband passed away before the war and I took full responsibility for my children.
I used to work on different farms, from dawn to noon,
and went home to cook lunch for my children and ageing mother.
As I started to finally feel more secure and stable,
the war broke out and everything became very difficult.
My small income was no longer enough to meet our basic needs.
And the rise in prices now makes it hard even to be able to afford the essentials.
I don’t know how to feed my children.
I don’t want to watch my children starve to death.”
As she said this, she faltered and couldn’t finish her sentence. I couldn’t help but cry with her.

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These are some of the stories that we come across in the field,
and there are many other stories from different parts of Yemen.
Every day the situation is getting worse and worse.
People are in urgent need of humanitarian aid in order to survive. But this is not a solution.
The only solution is to bring peace to our country.
Peace is our only hope.

Learn more about CARE's work in Yemen.

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